The Laterlife Challenge 2009
Making the most of retirement
October 2009
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This is our latest set of examples drawn from entries to
this year's Laterlife Challenge.
Take a look at what others are doing in their retirement. We
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2009 Challenge and share how you are making the most of
retirement (you can remain anonymous if you wish). Don't forget
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Laterlife Challenge Entries
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Gwen from Stratford upon Avon
I am 79 and having the time of my life.
I changed career completely when I retired at 61
and trained to be a tour guide on the local open top tour buses,
and later a Blue Badge Guide for the Heart of England. I give
talks (sometimes for charity) on Going Topless In Stratford and
do walking tours of Birmingham and coach tours of the Cotswolds,
as well as the open top tours in the summer.
A friend of mine started a company doing Murder
Evenings and Murder Weekends and so I joined the company. After
16 years she has sold the company but I am still taking part,
travelling all over the country killing or being killed.
A local Writing Group has helped me to improve
my creative writing and I have had short stories and poems
published.
Oh, and I sing in a choir now that slight
arthritis in my knee means I can no longer caper about in the
local Operatic Society shows.
Jane from Almeria in Spain
My husband was forcibly retired twelve years ago
in his early fifties. He couldn't get to grips with the idea of
not working so when another opportunity arose he took it, but
the new company was soon taken over and he found himself
redundant again.
I managed to convince him that it was time to
see if we could fulfil my life's dream of retirement to France,
running a B&B and maybe a couple of g?es. The south west
appealed to me, but a two week holiday there in October 1998
soon convinced us that it had to be somewhere further south for
proper guaranteed winter sun. Italy was the next most obvious
choice as I already spoke Italian as well as French, but the
areas we like were way beyond our budget. We heard that there
were coastal places in southern Spain that were not as built up
as the usual costas and ended up researching eastern Andalucia,
the province of Almeria.
The rest is history. We fell totally in love
with it, and (rather rashly with hindsight!) bought a very large
plot of land near the beautiful little hill village of Bedar.
Getting consent to build on this piece of rural land took a very
long time (from 1999 to 2004!).
Meantime, Terry being incapable of doing
nothing, we bought a house to do up as a project to keep him
busy. It was far bigger than we were looking for and had many
more problems than we anticipated. The total job took us from
2002 to 2006, and when we had finished, our new house was still
not complete (lots of difficulties with builders), so we started
to do B&B there, enjoying every moment of the sociable and
catering aspects of our new life, with clients from all over
Europe.
Finally in July 2008 our new house was pretty
well complete and we moved there, having decided to do all the
finishing touches ourselves, including fitting bathrooms, some
of the tiling and all of the landscaping. It took me the best
part of a year to get all the soft furnishings and interior
d?or sorted but this summer we welcomed our first B&B guests
here. They have been wowed by the wonderful, peaceful setting
with stunning mountain views and just 30 minutes inland. We
missed the peak of the market for selling our old house so we
are also very busy with that, doing changeovers for holiday
lets. Terry still has plenty of landscaping to do outside, and
we have almonds, oranges and other fruit trees to tend - at 66
he still shows no sign of slowing up.
I mastered Spanish quite quickly and am often
called on to help out friends with doctor's visits and other
times when pidgin Spanish won't do. I also help several English
friends with holiday properties to secure Spanish bookings, so
that they are not reliant on the UK market. I am involved with
our a local group raising funds for the Spanish Cancer
Association (which funds most of the breast screening here) and
with a local animal rescue charity and over the last few years I
have made hundreds of kilos of jam, marmalade and chutney to
raise funds them and for various other short term fundraising
requirements. Our local village has many expats (by no means all
English) but they are nearly all year-round residents, well
integrated with the local community and always ready to pitch in
and help when someone needs it. I have also recently started to
attend pottery classes and am completely hooked: I am not very
good but we have a great teacher and I have already made some
passable items.
Visitors often tell us how brave we are to have
taken the decision we took ten years but we saw a complete
change of lifestyle as a new lease of life. We wouldn't change
our life here for anything: the children and grandchildren visit
for a week or more at a time which means that we get great
quality time with them.
Ray from St Albans
I started thinking about my “laterlife” aims
when I was about 50. Perhaps my first real commitment was to
join the council (committee to the English) of my local
Caledonian Society (St Albans & Mid Herts Caledonian Society) in
1995 progressing on to be Vice-President for two years and
President for a further two years. As President I ran the
council which organised some 35 events each year including
Burns’ Supper, St Andrew’s Supper, a Ceilidh and attendance at
the Harpenden Highland Games. I’ve also spoken at two Burns’
Suppers – both times to toast The Lassies, the last time was
earlier this year.
I was President whilst I was still working for
ICL as the Market Researcher in the Consultancy and Project
Services Division. During this time I decided that I intended to
retire at about 60 and I wanted to do something when I retired.
My thoughts turned to my great love of the 1960s – Rhythm &
Blues. I hadn’t played the bass guitar for about 30 years but
why not again, and why not now? So after I’d bought my bass and
practice amplifier I soon realised that practising at home was
not my idea of fun – what better way to get those skills back
than to form a band? Note that I formed the band – I’m told I’m
a control freak, but really it was that I didn’t trust my skill
level to get me into a band; also I had very firm ideas about
what I wanted to play (blues) and when I wanted to play it
(weekdays only as weekends were already full with family and
social commitments).
So the first recruit was found in October 2001.
In no time it was June 2007, and after six years and 14
guitarists the current (hopefully stable) line-up was formed; in
the eight years I’ve had only four drummers, six vocalists and
two names – we’re now “Out of the Blue”. I get the gigs and
manage the repertoire and rehearsals and we’re now gigging
successfully around Herts and Essex – you can go to our website
for some video and audio examples ( www.out-of-the-blue.org ).
Oh yes, I also have a rehearsal band with an organist/vocalist
where we concentrate on writing and arranging our own material –
just for fun.
In the meantime my intentions to retire at 60
were pre-empted by the big ICL redundancy programme in 2002; I
was initially stunned at being asked to go, after all I was
unique – no-one else did my job for the division. But then the
realisation dawned that the company had made the decision which
I was afraid to make; this was that I wasn’t really that
interested any more and I was just coasting. I didn’t then think
I wanted to stop working so three job interviews later I had
found a job in the Admissions Department of Hertfordshire
University in nearby Hatfield. That job gave me time to
acclimatise outside the ICL environment I had known for nearly
30 years and after two years there, at 59, I decided I really
wanted to “give something back”. I left the university and had
found a job working a day a week for a charity called Tactile
Diagrams (TD) which was, coincidentally, based at the
university. TD design and make diagrams for blind and
partially-sited people; these may be educational, mapping or
just for entertainment.
TD wanted someone to maintain and build websites
for them. Well I had handcrafted small websites for the
caledonian society and for the family, hadn’t I? As TD were
desperate and offered training on Dreamweaver they took me on.
They got their sites maintained and I learned how to build and
maintain a proper site. After a year Tactile Diagrams merged
with RNIB and relocated to Birmingham, but I found that the
Welwyn Hatfield Ethnic Minority Group (WHEMG) which is just up
the road in Hatfield wanted a web designer to build and maintain
the website for its annual Kaleidoscope Festival, which
celebrates the cultural diversity in Welwyn Hatfield with food
stalls, music, kids activities and information stalls. I started
work just before the 2005 festival and got a pre-existent
embryonic website up and running before the event in July. I
have been developing this over the last four years and now it
just needs minor updates year-on-year. So now I also maintain
the WHEMG main website and also that for the Community &
Voluntary Service in Welwyn Hatfield. You can see these at
www.kalfest.org.uk
, www.whemgroup.org.uk
and www.whcvs.org.uk
respectively. As these are all stable I am now designing a site
for the Knebworth Sports Club which provides sports facilities
and tuition for people with disabilities.
In the meantime my wife, Alison, has been
working in the local charity shop for the Children’s Society,
working on the local RNLI committee which includes organising
collections during National Lifeboat Week, and also acting as
Secretary for her Old Girls’ Association (OGA) of St Albans
Girls’ School. I am a sort of honorary member of the OGA as I
act as Membership Secretary having set up a membership database
and emailing system for them. We now have about 30% of the
members in email contact making significant saving in printing
and postage costs for the association.
Alongside this we find time to have our youngest
granddaughter one day a week. Sophie is now three and will soon
be going to the Nursery class, so we’ll have less opportunity to
have her, but as we had her older sister, Lucy (now six),
similarly until she was three we have been very fortunate.
Two years ago in 2007 we both decided that we
still had some spare time and started voluntary work at the
Cathedral and Abbey Church of St Alban. This is one of the
largest churches in the world with a 300ft nave. It is much
visited as it is a welcoming place that makes no visitor charge.
It has 1000 volunteers which is twice as many as Canterbury
which makes a significant entry charge. Alison works on the
Information Desk answering questions from visitors, pointing
them in the right direction and selling tickets for the many
music events held in the cathedral. Having had great fun with
our two granddaughters I decided to work in the Education Centre
(EC). EC offers trails and workshops for children, these fit
within the National Curriculum and are mainly delivered by
volunteers under the guidance of four permanent teaching staff.
The team has achieved five Sandford Awards for Heritage
Education and the main attribute is the way in which we “nurture
the pupils’ sense of awe”; the “wow factor” is what we aim for
and it’s a joy to interact with the kids – I focus on the “Alban
and the Romans” story and the “Five Senses”. In the first trail
we tell the story of Alban, the first “english” martyr, in the
context of the Roman invasion, the kids act out the story and
then go on to visit the shrine and learn how the church
developed from Roman times to the current (largely) Norman
building. In the second trail we use the resources of the church
to introduce Reception and Year 1 kids to their five senses. We
feel the building, smell the candles, hear the bells, see the
images and pictures and taste easter eggs! All the time these
senses are related to the history and function of the church
itself.
So what do Alison and I do for entertainment?
Well by the end of this year we’ll have been to 14 plays or
concerts (including The Teddy Bears’ Picnic and Noddy!), taken
the family to Scotland to celebrate our wedding anniversary,
visited South Africa and Majorca, visited several “Stately
Homes” and entertained at home most weekends So there you have
nearly 15 years of my Laterlife. Have I enjoyed it all? Yes the
family and working with kids is great, but so is everything
else. Have I benefited? Well, I’ve learned some new skills in
teaching and web design. Am I stereotype of the over-sixties?
Well how many run and play in a band at 64? Do I use my skills?
Well I’ve always been an organiser, good with people and pretty
good with IT; so yes. Do I do things for others? Only if you
count the web designing for several charities, the work in the
cathedral and the membership work for my wife’s OGA! And do I
gain personal benefit? Need you ask?
Dinah from Guildford
A few years ago I was made redundant from my
senior job in market research, a career I had pursued for over
30 years. I decided to go back to university, using my
redundancy pay to live on, together with some freelance earnings
and savings. I did a MSc in Social Psychology at the University
of Surrey. That was very interesting and updated my knowledge
and skills in the area of social psychology. It was a great
experience to be a student again, with people much younger than
myself, although few of them were doing the course straight
after their first degrees, so were technically 'mature'
students. The lecturers were also mainly quite a lot younger
than me (I was 54 at the time). My younger children were also
students at the time, and might have found it odd to have a
student parent!
I was then offered the chance to continue and do
a PhD in social psychology and was even given funding by the
university, which paid my fees plus a tax-free bursary. To
'earn' this I had to do some teaching work which I greatly
enjoyed - I had never taught before. The subject of my PhD was:
Ageism in the workplace. I was trying to find out why there is
age discrimination: what it is about older people which seems to
make employers wary of hiring them. I worked on this within the
framework of some social psychological theories about stigma and
discrimination. I found out that employment decision makers in
organisations tend to view older workers (50+) in stereotyped
ways and assume they will be lacking in energy or ambition, out
of date and unwilling to learn new skills (especially in IT
matters), and merely 'looking forward to retirement' rather than
putting effort into doing their jobs. There is also a tendency
to put all older people into the 'past it' category, whether
they are 51 or 101.
Nowadays, 'work' itself is viewed as
likely to be highly stressful with tough targets to meet, and
often managers' pay depends on their teams meeting these tough
targets. Therefore, they want to reduce the risk of failing to
meet them, by hiring only people they think will 'contribute
120%' to these goals. Together with the stereotyped assumptions
about older workers, this means that they tend to prefer to hire
younger ones, with people in their 30s being the most attractive
age group.
This was shown via a combination of
'qualitative' research (talking in depth to managers and to
older workers themselves) and a 'quantitative' experimental
study (in which managers had to choose between a range of
potential 'candidates' for jobs involving higher or lower stress
in terms of meeting targets. It was found that older candidates
(in their fifties but also forties) were far less attractive if
the job to be filled appeared to involve higher stress and tough
targets. This is actually a new contribution to the sum of
knowledge about ageism and age discrimination in the workplace
and goes some way towards explaining why age discrimination
takes place and employers may be reluctant to take on older
people.
My PhD was awarded in June 2008, and I have
presented this work at a variety of conferences in the fields of
social psychology and gerontology and am also writing up papers
for publication. Having read about the 'Laterlife Challenge' I
wanted to tell people about doing this research, as I found the
whole process very enjoyable and satisfying. So the redundancy I
experienced at 54 (probably on grounds of ageism!) ended up
leading me to new experiences which have been very interesting,
satisfying, and, I believe, useful to the sum of knowledge about
ageism at work. I would encourage anyone who has dreams of going
back to university, to give it a try. It is unlikely they will
feel out of place, and far more likely that they will find that
their life skills and experience equip them very well for the
work, and that their fellow students and even lecturers will
welcome the point of view they can contribute.
Carol from Rushden
As a widow of three years, but still working I
wanted to get to know more people in my area and do other
things. I had seen a article in my local free paper about the
50+ Adventure Club and thought it sounded very exciting.
I joined in January 2008 and have taken part in
some brilliant activities which I enjoyed and a very few that I
didn't! I have been white water rafting at the national centre
in Bala, North Wales, go-carting, quad biking, learnt to sail,
done Go-Ape twice, orienteering, tandem and solo cycling, clay
pigeon shooting, canoeing down both the Severn and Wye, horse
back riding, leant to play petanque, indoor bowls and ten pin
bowling, dancing etc etc. Still to come this year is gorge
scrambling, Via Ferrata, fencing, punting, raft building etc.
The activities that I take part in are governed
by their cost now that I am full time retired. I have been a
committee member for nearly a year, which means planning
different activities. I have also done a tandem parachute jump
for charity raising about ?1,000 for the Suzy Lamplugh trust.
Since retiring I have joined a new branch of U3A
in my area and am leading on handicrafts, I have to say against
my better judgement, but also attend other groups as an active
member. I am enjoying these and have learnt a lot already
although we have only been set up three months. I am also a long
standing member of a patchwork group and can now attend weekday
workshops, which I could not do when working.
For six years I have been a non-executive Board
member of my locally run council not-for-profit leisure centres
and I am a member of the gym and try to go at least twice a
week. I now play golf on a weekly basis as well. I have my
garden to do as well as grandchildren who I try to see regularly
How I fitted in work I shall never know, but I realise that I
have to make the effort to be active, whether socially or doing
my 'adventures', as cannot rely on others.
Steve from Kent
Active? You bet... find it impossible not to be.
I have three main activities, each of which takes up half of my
time. The challenge of fitting it all in does not stop with
retirement!
I'm two thirds of the way through a part time
PhD with the Open University, on the topic of solar
photovoltaics in Germany. I started in 2005 (aged 51) while
still working.
Active in the Transition Town initiative here in
Sevenoaks, part of the now international network which aims to
catalyse a community led response to the impacts of climate
change and rising fossil fuel cost, building local resilience
through a gradual shift to a better way of living. I contribute
former career skills: writing, inc funding bids, and networking
with other community organisations, local councils, and national
NGOs. I also volunteer at our community arts centre, and at
Fordhall Farm in Shropshire (one of 8000 co-owners).
And the third activity? Have got very much into
growing our own vegetables: made raised beds in the garden, and
have a small allotment plot (waitlisted for larger one).
All that on top of "life admin" paperwork,
sorting out little tasks in the house, and parenting teenage
daughter. And solving and setting cryptic crosswords. And
membership of various societies, inc the friends of our twin
towns in Germany and France, Mensa, Green Party (stood as county
council candidate in June 2009). Excuse me, I think I need a
little lie-down....
More examples
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retirement examples in entries to this year's Challenge:
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examples 3
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examples 4
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years entries to the Laterlife Challenge
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