The Laterlife Challenge 2009
Making the most of retirement
November 2009
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This is our latest set of examples drawn from entries to
this year's Laterlife Challenge.
Take a look at what others are doing in their retirement. We
hope it will inspire you to enter the
2009 Challenge and share how you are making the most of
retirement (you can remain anonymous if you wish). Don't forget
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Laterlife Challenge Entries
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We'd love to hear how you are spending your retirement whatever
you are doing
Brian from Sheffield
As a result of support work with bereaved
children over several years both as a volunteer and my work I
had come to appreciate the unnecessary and additional burdens
placed on many children by various actions of adults. These
included such acts as failing to warn a child that their nearest
and dearest was approaching the end of their life, not allowing
them to attend the funeral, the lack of training for teachers in
handling bereaved children.
I discovered that although a lot of publications
talked about the needs of such children and their possible
reactions in grief, especially when mishandled, not one of these
worthwhile publications was the result of asking the children
themselves.
On retirement I therefore enrolled for a
research degree at Sheffield Hallam University and over a period
of two years managed to gain access to 30 children aged 6 - 12
years who had lost a parent through death, in some cased both
parents. Obviously I needed parental permission and had to
follow the child protection protocols but the barriers put up
against this by some parents, teachers, social workers and
others were an indication in themselves of the ignorance of many
adults on this matter.
My thesis was summarised in a report by the
Child Bereavement Charity who also found some funding for my
expenses. This is still the first and only such child centred
enquiry to be carried out in this country although several have
been done in the USA.
In view of the prejudice I encountered I sent a
questionnaire to the children interviewed to ask for their
reactions to being asked to talk about their deceased parent.
During interviews I asked them why they had agreed to take part.
The answers were basically the same for each one. 'I enjoyed
talking to you about my mum. My dad or my gran always changes
the subject' was the most common type.
The motivation for taking part: 'I hope it will
help other children who are in the same situation' A child loses
a parent through death every 27 minutes in this country, nearly
20,000 a year. add to that siblings, grandparents and other
close relatives the figure is a staggering 2 million children
ages 5 - 15 at any one time experiencing bereavement. Other
research tells us that 22% of all school exclusions are the
result of bereavement or loss, and the Home Office that such
children are the most likely to become delinquent. Surely taking
this seriously early on would be more effective than issuing
ASBO's?
Angie from Dorset
In October 2008 we began an epic journey in
India travelling around the globe backpacker style for 12
months. We packed up our house and rented it out to help fund
the trip which was to include 4 continents and 15 countries. It
was at times a bit nerve wracking but at the same time the most
incredible journey of our lives.
We stayed in a variety of accommodation, mainly
in hostels and sometimes with friends that we met along the way
but we were moving constantly and keeping fit was an important
part of our new lifestyle otherwise we'd never have coped. We
cycled at every opportunity, climbed mountains, kayaked and
sailed whenever possible and in many parts of the world we took
advantage of warm oceans and swam almost every day.
Alan practices Tai Chi at home and joined in
groups in parks all over the world while I photographed people
and cultures and the ever changing landscape. We travelled on
planes, trains, boats and buses and slept on sofa's, futons and
overnight coaches which only enriched our experience.
We visited an orphanage in Cambodia and now that
we're home we intend to raise money to improve the childrens
living conditions.
We have come to understand so much about
different cultures and values all over the world. About poverty,
loss, forgiveness and trauma for example in the peace gardens of
Hiroshima and in the killing fields of Cambodia.
We were children in the 60's but met and married
in the early 70's when the bravest of our friends talked of
their adventures in travel. Since then our own children have
travelled and married, so in 2008 after 30 years in the fire
service we decided that it was our turn. We have met many
wonderful people all over the world we carried a laptop and
planned all but 5 nights of our accommodation as we went. We
kept in touch with family on skype which helped to keep us
going. I have taken hundreds of the most beautiful photographs
of people and places that until now we had only read about. This
really has been the journey of a lifetime.
May from Liverpool
I have found a new lease of life at 58. I
decided to lose some weight 2 years ago, I have since lost a
total of 7 1/2 stone and need to lose even more. Before this I
was confined to the house because I was so heavy, Now I go to
various social clubs and have made lots of new friends, I go on
days out with these clubs and have gained so much confidence it
is hard to believe. I would not have managed to stay in my home
when my husband had a major heart attack if I had not been able
to cope. My family are all so proud of me and I am now able to
travel down south to attend my grandaughter's wedding later this
month. I feel so confident that I have started to make cards and
have been making them to sell at my slimming club for their
chosen charity NSPCC.My life has blossomed since I reached
retirement age and I am happier now than I have been for some
time.
Jan from Goole
I am now 69 and way back in 1992 I decided to
become a writer and joined a correspondence creative writing
course (Writers Beureau). I also joined my local writers circle,
which I now help to co-ordinate.
My tutor was always most encouraging and I
quickly became quite lucky with some of my submissions to
magazines and had several published for payment. However I
decided I really wanted to concentrate more on novel writing and
have written 4 novels to date... the latest of which now has a
publisher and will be hopefully coming out later this year.
Meanwhile I was commissioned to ghost write the
autobiography for an American show business singing personality
who now lives here in Yorkshire. This book came out in December
and to my delight is doing extremely well. Do check out my
website:
www.janwarburton.co.uk for more info. I have just had
the joy of receiving my first royalty payment for the
autobiography... so I feel life is really looking up for me in
my retirement.
It has also given me a very positive outlook and
I now feel sure there is absolutely no reason why more success
isn't on the way. If Mary Wesley could do it at 70, well then so
can I!!!
Lea from Liphook
I have always enjoyed driving and to move into
something other than cars, which I have driven allmy life, I now
drive a 16 seater minibus for the local Community trust. But
even more fun, I drive an open topped double decker bus (1957
leyland ex-London Tours) for a local museum.
My retirement has coincided with being appointed
one of two church wardens for our local church. It is
particularly busy because we are in the planning phase of
getting an annexe built onto the church (a listed building!)
To keep my brain cells active (and to check that
they are all still working) I have taken up piano lessons!
I have also tapped into the knowledge and
experience I had when I left work by doing a little consultancy
which is fun.
Madeline from Middlesex
Since our retirement in December 2008, we have
devised and maintained an activities programme which comprises:
* swimming three times per week for one hour
* walking for one hour twice per week for me
* decluttering the house when the weather is not sunny (This is
now complete)
* decluttering the garden when the sun is out (Not yet complete
for a variety of reasons mainly the lack of sun)
* walking (or cycling for me) rather than driving unless there
is a heavy load to carry
I have walked the race for life at Hyde Park in
July 2009 - this is my first time participating in this.
We spent 5 days in Rome, 10 days in Barbados, 3
days in Hayling Island and we plan to go away every 2 months ish.
Our big one for next year is Florida.
As a consequence of all of the above, my husband
has lost about 2 stone and he is feeling much better generally.
More examples
Click below for more
retirement examples in entries to this year's Challenge:
Retirement
examples 1
Retirement examples
2
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examples 4
Click for more retirement examples from previous
years entries to the Laterlife Challenge
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