The Laterlife Challenge 2009
Making the most of retirement
December 2009
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This is our latest set of examples drawn from entries to
this year's Laterlife Challenge.
Take a look at what others are doing in their retirement. We
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Challenge and share how you are making the most of
retirement.
  
Laterlife Challenge Entries
Patricia from Nelson, Lancashire
When I retired 2.5 years ago, I joined the local
croquet club at the suggestion of my sister and brother-in-law
and play there at least once a week. I also started walking all
the local parks and "green spots" on the local map in order to
keep active. Now that I have covered all of those and find that
I walk less often, I have taken on a share in a friend's
allotment and joined a local fitness gym instead.
Last year I joined the local branch of the U3A
with a couple of friends and have taken up Art and Country
Dancing as regular activities, while occasionally going to the
Architecture and Gardening meetings (usually on their trips
out). I also go to as many of the outings of the Dalton History
Club as I can manage with my friends.
Although I only have a tiny back yard I am a
keen gardener and try to fill it with as many pots growing
flowers and vegetables as I can. Because I enjoy going to the
park at the bottom of my street as often as possible I joined
the local Friends group where I became the Secretary and now we
have just been awarded the prestigious Green Flag.
To keep my brain active I go to the local Cafe
Scientifique club once a month where they have fascinating
lectures on a variety of topics and at home I am struggling with
keeping up my Modern Greek and also learning Spanish and
Portuguese to use when I go abroad. I try to go abroad on
holiday at least once a year (altho I haven't made it to
anywhere particularly unusual) regarding the challenge of
holidaying alone as sufficient challenge. This year I have been
to North Portugal and in October I am going to Crete.
When I am not doing any of the above I love to
give small dinner parties for my friends or just curl up at home
with a good book or my cross stitch.
Some years ago my daughter introduced me to a
blog and I keep in touch daily with all the friends I have made
on that. Later this year when I have updated the computer I am
hoping she is going to get me World of Warcraft so that I can
join in playing that with her friends as well.
Best thing I ever did was to retire earlier than
planned and start living my life again. And since I have a very
small pensionable income and am in receipt of benefits, the
above list of activities shows that you don't need a lot of
money to be active, involved and enjoying yourself.
Jill from Walton on Thames
John and I retired in 2005. We moved to Whiteley
Village in Surrey (a Charity Trust retirement village) where we
took up amateur dramatics and have been in the last four Easter
shows and are looking forward to next Easter when the show has a
Golden Anniversary. John and I will be singing solos, we are
also doing a duet (dressed up) I cannot tell you what they are
because it may spoil the show.
John is continuing to learn to play the
clarinet, guitar and keyboard (he has a wonderful singing
voice). I am learning and have played the flute on stage and
also am learning to play the guitar. We enjoy performing and can
be seen in our local Karaoke pubs at times.
In 2006 we bought ourselves an old caravan for
?800.00 (never having been caravaners before)and an old car for
?2,000.00 and booked the ferry from Portsmouth to Bilbao in
Spain and spent 11 weeks travelling through Spain to Cadiz and
along the Costas through to France, where we stayed for a short
time in the Pyranees. We met up with many interesting people
including some entertainers and had some fun jam sessions. After
which we travelled back across France to Calais and back to
Dover and home.
During our stay in Spain we spent a couple of
weeks in Salou when my parents joined us for a week. At 82 years
old they stayed in a hotel and we took them out everyday and
often back to the camp site and our caravan for BBQ's and music.
Yes, we had with us, two guitars, a flute, a clarinet and a
keyboard. Also a piano accordian which John attempts to play at
times, to the amusement of ourselves and our friends. Sadly my
Dad died very recently.
We dropped in to see a cousin in Almeria (Mojacar).
We had some mishaps, the clutch failed in the car. the steering
went wrong, the roof light fell off the caravan, we got caught
in torrential rainstorms and the awning fell down. Despite this
we made the necessary repairs and giggled through the 11 weeks
away.
We are still telling tales of our adventure and laughing.
In 2008 John and I were asked to be the Pearly
King and Queen for the Whiteley Village Show, we had to hire
some costumes and borrow my Dad's golf buggy and make ourselves
noticed (we appeared in the local Surrey Herald).
After our trip we started to occasionally look
after other villagers dogs when they were away and indeed we
still do. We haven't owned a dog ourselves for some years as we
both worked before retirement. It gave us enjoyment and much
needed excuse to go for long walks in our beautiful village and
through the woods. We never intended to have another dog of our
own but along came Hattie, a very intelligent, cross bred Jack
Russell, eight years old. We looked after her for many weekends
and fell in love with her. Her owner had lost her partner and as
she was working, Hattie was left alone for much of the time, Jan
her owner decided that it would be kinder to Hattie to have her
rehomed. John and I couldn't bear never to see Hattie again and
so we adopted her.
I did the publicity for the village 'fun' dog
show this year and entered Hattie for several classes.
Amazingly she walked off with Champion Dog and Top Dog prizes.
(There were independent judges!!)
She has been a source of much comfort this year as we have lost
four family members, the most difficult being our Grandson Gary
who died in a motorcycle accident in April.
Together, John and I run a monthly Bingo session
in the village (called Little Bingo) there is a Big Bingo for
larger prizes. On the second Wednesday of each month we set up
the machine, I sell the tickets and do the necessary paperwork
and John calls the numbers. Midway through the session we have a
raffle and tea and biscuits. We are accompanied by Hattie who
lies quietly under John's chair until the biscuits arrive, when
she visits the players for any spare crumbs.
All in all life is very busy and rewarding but
we are looking forward to a happier year, next year.
Angie from Weymouth
In October 2008 we began an epic journey in
India travelling around the globe backpacker style for 12
months. We packed up our house and rented it out to help fund
the trip which was to include 4 continents and 15 countries. It
was at times a bit nerve wracking but at the same time the most
incredible journey of our lives.
We stayed in a variety of accommodation, mainly
in hostels and sometimes with friends that we met along the way
but we were moving constantly and keeping fit was an important
part of our new lifestyle otherwise we'd never have coped. We
cycled at every opportunity, climbed mountains, kayaked and
sailed whenever possible and in many parts of the world we took
advantage of warm oceans and swam almost every day.
Alan practices Tai Chi at home and joined in
groups in parks all over the world while I photographed people
and cultures and the ever changing landscape. We travelled on
planes, trains, boats and buses and slept on sofa's, futons and
overnight coaches which only enriched our experience.
We visited an orphanage in Cambodia and now that
we're home we intend to raise money to improve the children's
living conditions.
We have come to understand so much about
different cultures and values all over the world. About poverty,
loss, forgiveness and trauma for example in the peace gardens of
Hiroshima and in the killing fields of Cambodia.
We were children in the 60's but met and married
in the early 70's when the bravest of our friends talked of
their adventures in travel. Since then our own children have
travelled and married, so in 2008 after 30 years in the fire
service we decided that it was our turn. We have met many
wonderful people all over the world we carried a laptop and
planned all but 5 nights of our accommodation as we went. We
kept in touch with family on skype which helped to keep us
going. I have taken hundreds of the most beautiful photographs
of people and places that until now we had only read about. This
really has been the journey of a lifetime.
Marian from Cheltenham
I retired from Teaching in a Public School 9
years ago at 60 years where my last position was Swim Coach some
A Level PE and Manager of the 600 seater theatre.
My life since then has never been busier-Firstly
I became a District Census Officer and spent many days in the
Local job centre recruiting Team Leaders and Enumerators. For
the first time Census forms were sent back and not collected so
my teams had to collect from the GPO and sort at my house and my
living rooms became full of boxed forms.
Then I became a Saga Holiday Host and
accompanied many Saga Clients on Cruises around the world to
places I'd always wanted to see. The Hermitage Museum in St
Petersburg,The Capital cities of most European Countries and the
Idyllic Caribbean. I also hosted Saga Christmas Breaks and
Single Holidays in Spain and Uk.
I then had to have a full knee replacement and
curtail for a time these activities. My youngest daughter had
died tragically at 27yrs in 1999 and I needed to keep busy and
found a couple of years later The Compassionate Friends an
organisation run by bereaved parents for bereaved parents. I got
involved and became a Trustee and member of The National
Committee for 7 years. As Events Director i was responsible for
organising The National Gathering and also attended the
International Bereavement Conference in Vancouver. On a Local
level I held meetings in my house and arranged fundraising
coffee mornings and a Sponsored Swim for TCF Funds and am still
involved with the organisation.
In voluntary work I have been a Magistrate for
18years and sat on the Licensing Courts and Youth Courts in
addition to the Criminal Courts and as a Mentor to New
Magistrates a post I will have to retire from next year at 70.
Since I retired from Teaching for fun I have
been up in a Hot Air Balloon, ridden a Quad Bike in USA and
walked on a Glacier in Alaska which I was very proud to do with
my New Knee. I currently organise a Singles Dining Club for the
Over 60s give or take a bit! and been Chairman of a Ladies
Tangent Club, also a member of a Lolly Dollies Investment Club
(when Shares were worth some thing. I have enjoyed following and
supporting my young grandchildren's hobbies often being a driver
for my 12year old grandaughter who as a competitive swimmer
trains 8 times a week (am as well as pm) Being a Spectator for
my 11year old Rugby mad playing Grandson and watching my other
Grandaughter ride her Horse. Oh I forgot to say I am still
teaching swimming to young children and adults on a weekly basis
and run the Swim school now in its 29th year.
Chris from Newent
I retired to take up self-employment in 1999 in
partnership with my wife. We ran a Health and Nutrition business
until March 2008 when we closed it down to free up time for
other things.
In 2003 I became involved in fighting against an
inappropriate development on a local farm for a Wind Turbine
proposed by a developer to the local farmer. I became part of a
team of four people and we successfully fought off the proposal.
During this period I started a blog site (
www.southherefordshiresos.blogspot.com ) which continues
today with updates and issues that affect the local community.
In 2007 it became apparent that the local
magazine, The Chimes, was about to fail due to the retirement of
the two Editors who wished to fully retire. I instigated the
replacement of them by offering my services and those of two
neighbours as a trio to take on the publication. Since then we
have grown The Chimes to a circulation of 1000 to cover four
parishes. Our income is from advertising and donations and we
are non-profit making. We work on a rotation basis such that we
each edit the magazine three monthly, but I ensure that the
adverts are correctly inserted and displayed.
I have also become a local Councillor
representing the parishioners of Aston Ingham, meeting monthly,
and I produce the Aston Ingham blogsite which lists the Meeting
Minutes (
www.aipcreports.blogspot.com ) I am also the Chairman of the
Gorsley Garden Club which organises speakers in the winter
months and garden visits in the summer. I and my wife joined the
National Garden Scheme in 2008 and opened our garden, along with
two others in August that year. Unfortunately the other two
gardens withdrew this year so we opened to support the Aston
Ingham Garden Weekend in July.
I think you could safely say that we have been a
little busy since 'retiring'. But it is great fun and rewarding
in helping the local community.
Maureen from Dudley
I joined a gym when I retired. I was a little
nervous because I thought it might be full of young, energetic,
toned, beautiful people, but there were plenty of my
contemporaries of all shapes sizes and levels of fitness, or
otherwise. I had a go at various classes and really loved yoga
-though at times, as my muscles protest at being stretched, I
have to remind myself that I do enjoy it! I have remastered the
art of standing on my head (at one time the only one in the
class who could, and we're not all retired), and am currently
trying to achieve balancing when doing a handstand. Besides
those showy-offy things though I have found many benefits. I am
far more flexible, I've built up strength and it has given me a
great sense of well being.
I had cancer not long before I retired and
received help and support from our local Cancer Support group,
so after retiring I started to do some voluntary work there to
try and help others in the situation I had been in. I'm now a
Trustee of the group and also write a nutrition article in the
bimonthly newsletter. I had decided to become very proactive
about my health after the sledgehammer treatment of surgery,
radiotherapy, chemotherapy and drugs (hence joining the gym),
and nutrition interested me greatly, as well as tying in nicely
with my love of cooking.
I tried the complementery therapy, Reiki at
Cancer Support and found it very beneficial. In fact I was so
impressed with its efficacy that I learnt to be a Reiki
practitioner myself. I do Reiki for friends and family and for
myself.
I'm learning to play the piano and I'm learning
how to be a gardener - the first with a teacher, the second
through trial and error! I adore spending time with my
grandchildren. I love having time to read and to do the
crossword. I have become 'a lady who lunches' and it is so good
to have a leisurely 2 or 3 hours with old friends. I love to
travel and to go to the theatre. In fact I think retirement is
BRILLIANT and can't think why I had never looked forward to it.
Long may it last!
More examples
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retirement examples in entries to this year's Challenge:
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