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Talkback is a regular feature in laterlife.com run by journalist and author Helen Franks. 

Welcome to talkback 15

Read Helen’s views and ideas, then add your own by emailing her on helen@laterlife.com. Whatever your opinion on the subject under discussion, Helen wants to hear it. And in due course a selection of replies will feature in talkback.

If you would like to suggest future topics for talkback, please email Helen with the details. And remember you can also start your own forum discussion thread by visiting the laterlife cafe

 

Hi, I’m Helen – your host on talkback. Like you, I have fifty-plus interests which make for a varied lifestyle. Mine include a husband, three grown-up children, two sons-in-law, four grandchildren and a father aged 97. I do some charity work, enjoy walking in the country (hills, but not mountains), go to the gym, attend yoga classes and a wonderful jazz dance class in which you forget the aerobic effort as you exercise along to Old Blue Eyes. That’s as well as writing on health issues. The novel will have to wait...
 
 

The Case of The Outraged Pensioners

You are probably familiar with the argument about strippers and prostitutes enjoying their job as well as the money, so why should other people get worked up about it?   But you may not have come across the pensioner who appears in an ad as a decrepit old biddy and who also likes the work and doesn't feel one bit exploited.

 

Such is the case with Anne Fletcher,  the 86-year-old who was photographed for a poster advertising a car.  No she wasn't driving it, she was trundling with her shopping trolley over a zebra crossing, making her fair game for the approaching vehicle. 

 

Lots of people were outraged.  Some enterprising protesters even daubed their objections all over the poster, and one Senior Citizens organisation was quoted as being insulted at the disrespect intended.

Ms Fletcher hit back with her own take on the ad.  'It was fun' she said.  'There was never a thought that anyone would see it as offensive'. She says she is not a professional model (does this  mean she wasn't paid?), but has gone on to be photographed for Help the Aged, Neighbourhood Watch and other modelling assignments.

 

So what's my problem?  Sorry to be a killjoy, but I - and I'm talking about you too - don't get the fun or the money, we just get the attitude that old people are slow, pathetic and good for a laugh.  

And yet, and yet… Part of me is delighted that Ms Fletcher has had this opportunity. Few do at her age.  I am even, in a way, pleased that advertisers acknowledge the existence of anyone over fifty in an ad.  For the most part, if you were a visitor from Mars relying on public images, you would never guess that our elderly population is expanding or even exists.

 

But do we want 'old' to be the butt of jokes?  If the people on the zebra crossing had been young women, or mothers with children or people of an ethnic minority, would the image have ever got off the ground?

Or take this other example, in an ad for tourism (sent to me by a reader of this column).   It  showed photographs of various historical sites and invited visitors to see the country's old relics.  Along with the castles and picturesque villages was a picture of elderly men in a pub.

 

Another joke depending on whether you're laughing or being laughed at.    

You'd have thought by now that advertisers would realise that older people buy cars, take holidays and are not intrinsically funny because of the number of birthdays they have celebrated.

 

Should we complain to advertisers, boycott products or insist on being 'tolerant' so as not to be accused of lacking a sense of humour?

 

Send me your views:    helen@laterlife.com

 

 

  
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