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October 2005

Helen FranksTalkback is a regular feature in laterlife.com run by journalist and author Helen Franks.   

Welcome to talkback 67

Read Helen's views and ideas, then add your own by emailing her on helen@laterlife.com. Whatever your opinion on the subject under discussion, Helen wants to hear it.

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Listening to the punters

When my late mother-in-law was in a residential home, I visited her regularly. I noted the way men and women segregated themselves into ‘his and hers’ areas, though a frisson of excitement and/or disapproval emerged when an elderly man had the temerity to invade the women’s quarters. I noted the endless boredom of the afternoons, when the television was switched on to programmes of no apparent interest to their audience. I noted the way meals were served – separate tables yes, but no alcohol, no menus, none of the civilized delights of dining.

So I researched ‘best practice’ residential homes,
talked to campaigners and wrote several features in national newspapers on how to improve the quality of life for elderly residents. Food, mini kitchens, drug management, alcohol, sex, pets, dealing with death – that sort of thing. That was some years ago. How things haven’t changed!

This year I read a feature in a national newspaper on what people want from care homes – or ‘old people’s homes’ as they were called in less PC times. ‘No set meal times,’ was one comment. ‘Gentleness from well-paid staff with time to listen,’ was another. Cruise ships, Viagra on tap, resident dog walkers, an obedient chef were also mentioned.

At around the same time, the Government announced
steps to take forward public consultation on improving community health and care services. The Your Health, Your Care, Your Say campaign started in September with a series of public engagement events, and a White Paper is due to be published at the turn of the year. Some of the questions included in the consultation are:

  • How to design services that fit the way people live their lives?

  • How to meet people's needs at different stages in their lives,
    for example in end of life care?

  • How do individuals and communities want to be involved in shaping
    local services?

This is part of a new shift in public consultation – asking the punters what they want. (See other developments in the laterlife feature You and Your Pension: things to say to your MP. )

All of this of course relates to statutory public services, not the private sector, which can be better but also can be a lot worse. Abuse of the elderly is rife in independently-run residential services. While four-fifths of referrals on abuse originate from residential services both public and private, 94 per cent of these are from the private sector. People in this sector need a voice too, but a new Equality Bill as it stands would give older people in private care settings no opportunity to have their human rights protected in law.

The Department of Health has set up a website to get our views
on health and care in the community. They say they really really want to hear from us. You can log on to www.nhs.uk/yoursay. There you will find a series of questions to answer which provide an opportunity for all of us to have our say. But don’t expect too much. There’s no room for comment or ideas. And nothing about Viagra in care homes. As at 2 July 2007, the web page is unavailable but the NHS website hints that it is probably a temporary error, so do try it either through Google or through the NHS site.

 

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