Helping with Social Contact
On the internet there are what are variously called online or
virtual communities, on which we can 'talk' to people by typing
in a message. There are websites such as Facebook where we can
enter our details, people can contact us and we can start
'online' friendships or keep in touch with our existing
friends.

These are fine and if we have friends or relations in far-flung
places, they are an excellent way of keeping in touch. However,
this Guide is not concerned with them in any detail because
there is a danger that people in later life can spend too much
time on the internet at the expense of meeting people
face-to-face and thereby losing real social contact. If you
really do want to join an online community you can research
them yourself once you have got to feel comfortable with using
the internet and making use of it by doing some of the things
that the Guide discusses.
Making the Most of the Internet links
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However, we can use the internet as a means of opening up
social contact with people in the real world enabling you to
increase your social contact, something that is important in
later life. Social contact helps us keep fit mentally and,
depending on what we do, physically and it prevents us becoming
introspective. Most of us like having friends and meeting people
but it's not always easy. The internet can help us to meet
people and make friends.
For example, there are various activities that can either be done alone
or with others. If you don't know how to contact
other people to do these activities, the internet can help. So,
if you want to do some walking, you could join the Ramblers' Association.
There will be a local group in your area so find out how to
contact it through the website and off you go. Or, if you want
to walk with other people without paying a subscription, look
for your local Walking for Health group. Just find the group nearest to you through
the website and join in the walks.
Similarly,
if you love reading and want to meet people to share it
with, you could join a reading group, where you meet once a
month to discuss a book that you have all read during the month
and then someone chooses the next book to read. If you click here you will see a website through which you can find
a reading group near you. If, by some chance, there is not one
listed, your local library will probably be able to help you
out.
You can extend this principle to any hobby or interest that you
have. If you type the name of your hobby into Google, or your
own favourite search engine, you will find websites dedicated to
it. If, for example, you are a stamp collector and you type
'stamp collecting' into Google, one of the sites you will be
shown is the UK Philately site, through which you can find a club near you. Joining a club that's linked to a hobby is an excellent way to meet like-minded people.
If you want to do some continuing education in a very informal
way you can do this locally and meet new people through it by
joining the University of the
Third Age (U3A). There are over 1,000 local groups and nearly
400,000 members organising their own local courses on anything
from tap dancing to advanced French. It's very cheap to join and
most of the courses are inexpensive, too.
People in later life are now starting to spend a long time on
the internet and this is fine providing it is not used as a
substitute for meeting real people and getting social contact.
We can use the internet to help us join clubs, pursue our
favourite hobbies with others, meet local people whilst learning
something new and make new friends. Try not to use it at the
expense of those things.
You can do your research through typing in the relevant words
into Google or your own search engine. You can then put the web
sites
you think you'll use regularly into your favourites so that
you're only a click away.
If you want to meet someone of the opposite sex for social
contact, friendship or to find a partner in later life, you can
get help from laterlife's Guide to Over-50s Internet Dating
Now read the rest of the Guide by clicking the links in the box
and see how else you can make the most of the internet. |